When To Marry
Life Question Marriage
What is the comfortable age to marry.
I will answer the question first but I ask you to read on for better understanding. Today’s young ladies are comfortable to marry between 22 and 30 years of age. On the other hand men find comfort between 28 and 35 years of age. If marriage is the ultimate state of being between couples then what age is the best age for marriage. We cannot look to history as a guide, because the further you go back the younger the age of girls being molested and bartered like property. Therefore I will rephrase the question to “What is a comfortable age to marry in the 20th Century”. Like most questions where men and women share a burden, the answer differ among the sexes. Yet, there are some common requirement that make the journey easier; 1. maturity, 2. understanding of self and 3. is the willingness to sacrifice, which is the definition of Love. It is common knowledge that females mature quicker than males, while men gain an understanding of self sooner than women. Finally the willingness to Love is a learned behavior and therefore make all the difference in the world. Environmental influences affects us all and it add a greater complexity to the question. The proper age is simply an age where two individuals have found their own self-confidence, and are willing to embrace sacrifice ,therefore they are intelligent enough to make the journey. All together these 3 factors comprise an individual’s maturity.